Quite often we set goals when it
comes to our work lives and personal lives such as, what we want to be when we
grow up, how much money we want to make, what new car we want by the end of the
year, when we want to buy a house, the list goes on…
We also seem to set health and fitness goals especially in the new year or just
before a wedding, these mainly revolving around weight loss and how we want to
look and feel better. It all sounds fine and dandy… but dig a little deeper and
you will find a few common problems with these goals…
1. Lack of consistency and follow through.
A very
small percentage of people actually follow through with their new year’s health
and fitness resolution. Why? It's like a trend, the normal thing to do
especially after a festive season. Everyone wants a great summer body, well
everyone who lives in the southern hemisphere and for those who live on the
northern side of the globe, well you just want to kick start that new year and
get back into shape… for that eventual summer body I assume!
2. Lack of experience and expertise.
Many
people even if they do set health and fitness goals, don't seek advice or help
to achieve these. They believe they can do it on their own. But like every
other year, nothing has changed; you haven't found the right sources to help
with this process and thus the journey ends very soon after it started.
Therefore I would advise those of you, particularly new to the health and
fitness thing, and even for those who have been doing it for a while but haven't
achieved the results that want; to go and find a professional in the field they
need help with, getting the right Personal trainer, the right Myotherapist,
Physiotherapist, Pilates instructor, sporting coach etc. is worth every penny.
If you keep doing exactly the same thing, how can you expect any difference in
your results? You might be a great accountant or even a great spin instructor,
but that doesn't mean you know how to lift weights or kick a football or
achieve a specific sport or movement.
3. Setting unrealistic goal or following the crowd.
Many
believe the basic 'weight loss', 'toning up' or 'bulking up' are good enough
goals to set, really? Do you really think that is sufficient? It's like saying
that I'll run a business and our KPI can be 'making money'. Is that realistic
when you have something that is so broad and hard to measure? Remember, a goal
should be realistic, achievable yet challenging. But most of all, it must be
measurable so you can see your progress. When we talk about measurable, there
are many tools to be used whether it be weight, measurements, photos, clothes,
feeling etc. it will all depend on YOUR goal and not someone else's. Quite
often I see people just listing down 'I want to lose 10kgs'. My question then
goes to, why and by when? These are vital to understand the reasons behind
these goals and how important they are to you. I also found that without
sitting down and really drilling down on your specific needs, you lose sight of
what it is you want and many get caught up with what is the norm and what
people typically want. I remember so clearly an example one of my teachers used
in a course I did a while back; the client was an older woman whose goal was to
be able to lift her own luggage of the carousel, be strong enough to do that
without the need for assistance. That was one of her goals, nothing fancy but
also something specific. It meant that the training could then be designed
specially to help her meet her goals. So when you sit down and set your goals,
think about what it is that you need, what you are struggling with whether it
be in life or just an exercise you've always wanted to do. It will make
training much more interesting and don't forget, all that strength, cardio
fitness, weight loss etc. will come into play depending on your goals.
4. It's just not important enough.
Some
people just don't even bother or want to set goals. Reasons do vary, some
people don't know how to set goals, don't know where to start, don't understand
how to set goals, and don’t want to fail and many more. But ultimately, quite
often, it’s because they don't believe it's important enough to sit down and
take some time out to set these goals. Do you think a company or even a family
can survive without setting goals? Why would you set yourself goals to climb
that corporate ladder and make more money so you and your family can live in
luxury when you can't even be bothered looking after your own health and the
health of those around you so you can actually enjoy the fruitfulness of your
labour?
Ways to help you set goals:
1. Sit
down and spend time brainstorming or even list something down that you are
struggling whether it be physically or even mentally. Remember exercise can be
good for the mind and body, great for the soul.
2. Make
it relatable to you, something specific to you and not to anyone else. A great
way for those who want to improve on their cardiovascular would start on a
small fun run. Use this as a great opportunity to do something for you, a
little time out in your day to do something for you to better your health and
fitness in any way you see fit.
3. Make it measurable. Accountability is key to success and if you don't have
it written down, many of you won't feel like it's real. Tell your family or
friend, get them involved whether it be training with you or encouraging you to
stay on track. It always helps when you have someone by your side through your
journey.
4. Set an action plan. Whether you are creating this on your own or with the
help of your personal trainer/coach. You need an action plan to follow to
achieve the goal. For every result, there must be a process, without this, it's
just a game of randomness. This can be fun and challenging but may not
specifically lead you efficiently to your goal. So again, this will depend on
what type of person you are, what goals you have and the timeframe you have set
yourself. Remember, you need to be consistent to be able to achieve results no
matter what you do, health and fitness is no different. You need to work hard
and consistently in a smart and correct manner to hit the nail on the head.
Now do you understand why it's so important to set some goals?
Everyone will have different goals therefore should be training differently to
the person next to them in some form or another. Consistency and hard work will
pay off and a sense of satisfaction will surface when you set and achieve these
goals The main thing is to keep moving, movement helps maintain a happy and
healthy life. The correct movements can help prevent issues down the track and
even help with those currently suffering issues. So next time your trainer or
someone asks you what your health and fitness goal is, you better be prepared!